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Realistic? Or just defensive?

This is the argument put forward, should we be realistic or follow our heart? Should we boast about us, or remain humble. The favourite phrase I'd picked from one of the top personnels I admire: 'dream, by all means dream, but keep your feet on the ground' In today's world, everyone is realistic. Everyone wants quick success or quick comfort. What happened to the age-old qualities of slogging it hard and making it happen, becoming successful with your loved ones. Unfortunately as we embark on our career of dreams, the passion and qualities sometimes take the back seat. We are driven, for factors that are external: money, reputation, attention. These do not last a lifetime, humbleness and passion do. Too many times, I see individuals my age, even myself, let the external factors get the upper hand of our life. The peer pressure, the wants and the dreams, is honestly unhealthy to one but this is life they always say, we are mold into what life wants us to be.

Thoughts and Yr1 working

I have been tired/sleepy beyond the normal limits of mine. But I've been very happy being able to bring my friends around Malaysia. First, it was Matt - the white/hk bf of Pen Nee. Now, its Yan Min and Jonathan, the love birds that I went to school together. Lastly, Ogaga and Tosin, the newly wed who'll be here at the end of the year. So the same strolls, Batu Caves, Thean Hou Gong, Klcc, Klang Bak Kut Teh (if they're up for it), Pasar Malam, Murni, SS2 Kayu..... there is actually not so many sight seeing places around, more eateries than sights to see. I guess its the same across any country, its the culture and tradition that you soak in. After all, that is what made up the country. Never would I imagine the opportunity to play host to my buddies ! Exactly what I like doing. Just need a big house of my own to host them next time :) Cannot believe its coming to the end of the year. I still have so many things to make a start on, namely VBA and a few business/personal